“I couldn’t sit, sleep, or live anymore.” How Alex found hope again despite chronic back pain and a scheduled herniated disc surgery

We are always grateful when patients share their stories with the world, because it helps more people discover that chiropractic care can be a way out of persistent pain cycles.

“When my children made their Christmas wishes, they didn’t ask for toys anymore. They just wanted Dad to get better.” When Alex shares this, it immediately becomes clear: this is not just about back pain. His life had slowly become dominated by pain. For months. The 49-year-old struggled through everyday life—as a self-employed professional, a father, and a man who was eventually just trying to get through each day somehow.

Sitting hurt. Lying down hurt. Sleeping was barely possible. And at some point, only one word remained: surgery.

Chronic back pain: when everything hurts

It all started seemingly harmless. First the knee. Then the hip. Then deep pain in the gluteal area. Eventually, the back. The diagnosis came quickly:

• Osteoarthritis
• Degeneration
• Herniated disc at L4/L5

Alex did what most people do—he followed the conventional path to seek help.

Orthopedists.
MRIs.
Physiotherapy.
Painkillers.
Injections.
More injections.

But instead of getting better, everything got worse.

“My entire daily routine eventually revolved only around pain.”

At night, he woke up every two hours because he couldn’t lie still. He tried new mattresses, stretching programs, online remedies, massages, osteopathy, exercises. Nothing provided lasting relief.

“Maybe surgery is necessary.”

After several MRIs and examinations, Alex was referred to a neurosurgeon. The recommendation was clear: continue injections. And if that doesn’t help—surgery.

He received three injections. None of them brought relief.

“It felt like they were treating the wrong spot.”

Still, he kept hearing the same message:

“The disc is the problem.”

Eventually, Alex scheduled surgery. Minimally invasive. Three weeks away. A family holiday to Thailand shortly after—something that had actually seemed impossible.

And yet, he still had this feeling inside:

What if this isn’t actually the real cause?

The turning point: an old MRI changes everything

Shortly before the planned surgery, something unexpected happened. Alex pulled out old MRI scans from about 15 years earlier. And suddenly, he noticed something: the disc looked almost identical back then, even though he had fully recovered at that time.

“That’s when I thought for the first time: maybe the disc isn’t actually the real problem.”

That thought wouldn’t leave him.

“I had nothing left to lose.”

Through his brother’s experience, Alex first came into contact with chiropractic care. He was actually quite skeptical. But eventually, the level of suffering outweighed his doubts. Four or five days before his scheduled surgery, he decided to go to a chiropractic clinic. With both MRIs in hand. And one question:

“Should I really go through with the surgery?”

The answer was surprisingly calm. No promises of miracles. No quick fixes. Instead, he was told:

“You can always have surgery later. But you can’t undo it once it’s done.”

That sentence stayed with him. Alex canceled the operation.

Small changes instead of major interventions

What surprised him most: the treatment was completely different from what he had expected.

Not aggressive.
Not “cracking bones.”
Not dramatic.

But precise. Calm. Step by step. He was also given exercises to do at home. He began paying more attention to movement again. Worked more often while standing. Stayed consistent. Three appointments per week. Small improvements. Then suddenly, the first real change.

“After two to three weeks, I noticed something was happening.”

Soon after, he was able to reduce pain medication—and then stop it completely.

The holiday that almost didn’t happen

The trip to Thailand was approaching. Just weeks earlier, Alex had been afraid he might not even be able to fly. But this time something was different: more mobility, less fear of pain, more trust in his own body.

And in the end—the trip happened.

“I even came back better than when I left.”

Today, Alex can sleep again. Drive a car. Train. Spend time with his family. Of course, he is more mindful of his body than before. But the acute pain that once dominated his life for months is gone.

What we can learn from this story

Alex’s story is not a “miracle cure.” And it also does not mean that surgery is always wrong. But it shows something important: not every MRI tells the full story. Not every pain has a single cause. And sometimes it is worth looking at the body as a whole before taking irreversible steps.

Above all, it shows how profoundly chronic pain can affect life:

physically
emotionally
within the family
mentally

And how much hope can arise when people finally feel:

“Maybe there is another way after all.”

For anyone currently struggling

If you have been dealing with back pain for months or years…
if you have already tried many things…
if you feel like your whole life now revolves around pain…

Then perhaps take this message from Alex’s story:

You are not alone with chronic back pain. And sometimes, it is worth not giving up yet.

The interview with Alex can also be found on our YouTube channel.

👉 If you are currently suffering from pain and looking for a sustainable solution, you can book an appointment through our website.

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The Chirolounge Team Munich